Turning Point?

From tarot.com:

"You are at a rather significant turning point in your life, yet you still want to believe that you can keep things going just as they are. The fact is that something needs to change. Even if you've been able to manage the tension up to this point, now your emotions are becoming too volatile to contain. Embracing the unknown instead of resisting it should help to make things easier for all involved."

Isn't that nice to know...

Some things need to change......

Thinking back to last week, there was something that I thought was a little strange.

Having Monday off last week, I told M that I was going for a haircut. Strangely, she just said okay and nothing more.

So off I went to for a haircut. Wasn't quite satisfied, because the dude kind of overdid it. But oh well.

Got home. To avoid conflict, I started off saying to M how the guy had overdone it. Surprisingly, she very calmly said that it looks okay, and that that's the way it'll be if I want to cut it short. Then she added that she doesn't like it though because the back look like a guy's hair.

At this point, I'm getting uneasy about what could happen next. But to my surprise, nothing happened. She didn't continue nagging me about the short hair. And she didn't explode on me about it looking too boyish. Phew.

I seriously cannot remember the last time that M didn't complain about my hair after I got a haircut. (Even though, relatively speaking, my hair is not short and not boyish at all compared to a lot of people out there.)

What are you thinking? I never know how to read you. Have you eased off on your views? Have you started to accept the reality? Or am I just being overly optimistic?

Some things need to change.